relationships – Tonotopics

September 22, 2021September 22, 2021

Respect

Such a short, inobtrusive word, but SO important…

I read a post yesterday about a gentleman showing some understanding for the fact that everyone is dealing with something, and that we should attempt to tread a little lighter… be a little kinder.

I have been mulling this over for a while now: the notion that we should wrap everyone in cotton wool and not offend, not be harsh, not make any sudden movements or loud noises…

I have come to the conclusion, that it’s not that.

September 2, 2021September 2, 2021

Spring

Spring tends to inspire, doesn’t it? A new season full of promise!

I have been quiet for various reasons, but more than one person has now actually commented on the absence of new posts and tonight there is finally something to be said.

I have referred to the advice that I pay for occasionally during these rambles. And I have had a hard time grasping my current homework. Being surrounded by death and hardship and illness… I think this has taken a toll on everyone. We are all in our own boats, trying to make sense and just … continue…

When these topics started, I was determined to “only take with me that which inspires me”. That means that I need to let go of “things” that no longer serve me. It all sounds simple. But in practice, what does that mean? I have come to the conclusion that I need to let go of things that make me unhappy and/or leave me unfulfilled.

April 20, 2021April 20, 2021

Should I walk on eggshells or should I speak my truth?

We live in an age of social media, where it seems, that some individuals are offended all the time… constantly, sometimes even not personally but on behalf of someone else. And it is exhausting!